when someone attractive accidentally brushes against you in the hallway
when someone explains something to you for the 3rd time and you still dont get it so you kinda just
christmas is so much worse as you get older it’s like “what do you want this year?” “a sense of purpose”
"a career" "financial security" "a sex life" "tuition for grad school" "alcohol" "a nap" "socks would be nice"
in pokemon you can battle a cop
you can battle a cop in real life if you arent a weenie
In the BDSM community it may be hard to tell where the line between kinky consensual play and abuse is crossed. Let this be a rule of thumb: trust your intuition. If you feel something is wrong, IT PROBABLY IS. If you feel you are being mistreated, SAY SOMETHING.
(This is a photoset; click the title, then the arrows on each photo!)
i have experienced every single one of these listed under “Abuser” All by the same person a few years back. It was hell and will tear one down completely. It took me a long time to heal and get past it. i was extremely close to giving up on exploring D/s altogether and had to take a long break. PLEASE if you experience any of these things, speak up, find someone to talk to. The Abuser will try to make you feel guilty or that you are disrespecting them and the relationship if you seek advice or help. That is all part of their abusive game as well. Discretion and privacy in a relationship is one thing. But a true and good Dom/Domme will not forbid you to reach out to others in the community or otherwise.
Please, Dom, Dommes and subs.. Read this and learn….
I can only second that, please read it, think about how these aspects turned out in your relationship.
…and please spread the word!
Fullmetal Alchemist Brotherhood surely is ironic.
It’s like the anime version of Se7en